u are the one who has the most power over yourself. i know this may be hard to believe since we are told from the beginning to do what others want us to do; that we are not in control of our own joy. we need to start teaching that we need to do, wear, say what we want to do. u have the most power to make urself the happiest u can be. analyze ur actions and begin to only allow urself to do the things u want to do because u truly want to do them. and please stop keeping urself from doing things that are good for you because u feel someone does not want u to do it. allow urself to be in control of ur own mind and ur own happiness. u will feel so free.